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Borderline Personality Disorder devastates the lives of those diagnosed with it as well as
family members, friends, relationships partners of those diagnosed with BPD. Life coaching
with A.J. Mahari who has been there on both sides of BPD in her own life can and will help increase your
understanding of BPD and of what you need in your own life as you grapple with the
pain on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder.© A.J. Mahari
Family Members, Relationship Partners (or ex-partners) of those with BPD - non borderlines
A.J. Mahari, in her life coaching work, specializes in, among other things, working with non borderlines who are having difficulty moving on after a relationship with someone with BPD ends or was ended by the borderline. She also works extensively with those who have borderline relatives and are feeling trapped in unhealthy relational patterns in those types of unchosen relationships with borderlines.
A.J. has six years of experience dealing with those referred to as non borderlines as a life coach. A.J. can assist those who are working on a relationship with someone with BPD - or who need more understanding about BPD. A.J. can also be of assistance to those who are very much in the confused and painful stage of trying to decide whether to stay in a relationship with someone with BPD or whether to leave. She also has extensive experience as a life coach supporting those who are in what is now being referred to as "non borderline recovery" after ending relationships, or after the BPD in one's life has ended a relationship, or when a family member has had to disengage from someone with BPD as well.
A.J. also life coaching support to those who are family members of someone diagnosed with BPD and who will benefit from a deeper understanding of BPD and how to relate to the person with BPD in ways that make it possible to first take care of yourself.
A.J. Mahari is a Proven Expert on BPD
To realize A.J. Mahari's expertise on BPD all you have to do is read her Websites read her Ebooks listen to her indepth Audio Programs written by A.J. Mahari who is also the speaker in them. You can also read her Blogs or listen to her BPD Audio Podcast or watch her Videos to experience for yourself not only her indepth knowledge of Borderline Personality as one who had it and recovered and as one who was in the non borderline role with her BPD parents and a BPD ex-partner. You can also get a feel for not only how insightful and compassionate A.J. is but also how she can articulate the various aspects of the way that BPD manifests and how it hurts and traps everyone involved. A.J. also knows how to help family members, loved ones, and ex or relationship partners identify goals and strategize and plan to meet those goals.
A.J. Mahari is unparalleled in terms of others who are new to their BPD recovery and new to life coaching. She has 6 years of direct life coaching experience specializing in BPD and she has experienced the challenges and heartache of BPD in all roles possible except as a parent of someone with BPD. Having 14 years distance between having had BPD and being recovered makes A.J. all the stronger as a life coach and all the more experienced in the many patterns that those who have someone with BPD in their lives often find challenging. A.J. can help you strategize and she is very experienced in working with those who have been left by the borderline or who are coming to the conclusion they need to leave. Mahari is very experienced in strategizing, planning, and coping with the transition from a relationship (whether you are family member, friend, co-worker, adult-child, parent of, or ex-partner of someone with BPD to working through the challenges, difficulty, and pain of that experience.
A.J., in her own words, "I have been described by many as an expert on Borderline Personality Disorder. What makes me an expert? Well, not University degrees, but real life experience. I am a person who recovered from BPD 14 years ago now. I also had 2 parents with BPD. I was also in a relationship with someone with BPD (after I had recovered from BPD) - Both of these experiences put me squarely the shoes and experience of what it means to be the loved one of someone with BPD, before, during and after I had Borderline Personality Disorder."
"I have been a life coach online for the past 6 years. That's a lot of experience! I also have been online writing articles, ebooks, authoring and speaking in both my audio programs and audio podcasts for 14 years now. I am an expert on BPD, from the inside out. I not only know how those with BPD feel and think from the inside out, but I also know, first hand, what it is like to be on the other side of BPD in the non borderline role. So, I also keenly understand the pain and confusion of the loved one, family member, ex or relationship partner of someone with BPD. I am able to explain, explore, and examine any and all aspects of BPD as it manifests generally and in relationships specifically with the clients I coach. I am an experienced strategizer. I can help you make a plan to cope more effectively than perhaps you are right now."
Borderline Personality Disorder is a complex and complicated mental illness. It drastically effects the lives of not only those diagnosed with it, but those who know, love, or care about someone with BPD.
Borderline Personality Disorder leaves both those with it and non borderlines in negative, often to the point of toxic, relationship patterns.
Life Coaching Programs with A.J. Mahari For Non Borderlines
As a life coach A.J. Mahari has a dynamic, compassionate, creative, and supportive approach. Specifically in her work with the family members, relationship or ex-relationship partners of those with Borderline Personality Disorder - non borderlines, A.J., as someone who had 2 borderline parents, has recovered from BPD, and who had a relationship (after her recovery with someone with BPD/NPD) knows from her own first hand experience the obstacles that will present themselves as challenging growth opportunities in the process of change and recovery for those who are non borderlines and who are grappling with the heartache and pain that is life on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder.
A.J. Mahari offers Life Coaching Programs for Family Members, Relationship partners or ex-partners of those with BPD - non borderlines.
A.J. Mahari's Life Coaching Programs for non borderlines are available via email or phone sessions. If you would like to purchase a program for phone sessions please note that the cost of any long distance charges you might incur is not included in the cost of the program.
A.J. Mahari has been recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder and writing about Borderline Personality Disorder online for 14 years. She has been working with non borderlines as a life coach for almost five years now. A.J. has been on both sides of this personality disorder. She has left both sides of it behind in her own personal life.
Life Coaching via Email or Phone - Unpackaged Services
You can purchase individual 50 minute hour telephone sessions or email life coaching services or packaged phone or email sessions that are not the same as the programs listed below.
The life coaching programs I offer for non borderlines can be tailored to suit your own personal needs and your schedule. Once you purchase this program, it is recommended that sessions take place once a week, but, if you want to have the session spread out a bit further that can be arranged. Again, this life coaching program can be either through email or via the telephone. The choice is yours.
Program One: Staying in The Relationship and Coping
This 8 session life coaching program for non borderlines focuses on coming to an understanding of the process of working to stay in a relationship - or for family members - how to best stay in a an active relational dynamic with someone with BPD without compromising or losing your health or sanity.
Please Note: Any purchased life coaching program is non-refundable.
Program Two: Leaving The Relationship or Relationship Has Ended
This 10 session life coaching program with and designed by A.J. Mahari, for non borderlines focuses on developing an emotional preparedness for leaving a relationship with someone with BPD or for those whose relationships have ended or been ended by the borderline, this program focuses on coping with the crazy-making lack of closure. In this life coaching program, for those in the process of leaving or for those who have left the borderline, A.J. Mahari will help you to come to the kind of deep and insightful understanding of BPD and what has just happened in your life that can and will help you break free from what is often an on-going emotional roller-coaster of questions. This program can also help family members who are in the process of disengaging a borderline relative or who know they need to break ties with a family member with BPD.
Please Note: Any purchased life coaching program is non-refundable.
Program Four: For Adult-Children of a Borderline Parent (BPD Parents)
This 6 session life coaching program with and designed by A.J. Mahari, for non borderlines who are an adult-child of a borderline parent or parents focuses on balancing oneself through coping techniques and new ways of engaging the borderline to change the relational dynamic and to stop any rescuing or enabling behaviour on their own part. This program focuses on coping with the crazy-making roller coaster of emotional chaos in ways that will make it possible for you to maintain your health and your mental health. This program assumes that the adult-child wants to continue to be in communication with the borderline parent or parents. However, a couple of the lessons have been re-written to accomodate any adult-child who feels that they have to, at least for a period of time, end contact and stop all communication.
Please Note: Any purchased life coaching program is non-refundable.
As a life coach I provide a caring, compassionate, safe, confidential, non judgemental, validating and supportive relationship within which clients can feel empowered to explore their present-day needs. I essentially act as a human mirror for my clients. I share with my clients an outside and unbiased perspective as to what I observe in listening to their feelings, experiences, and In the case of those who are family members, relationship partners, or ex-relationship partners of those with Borderline Personality Disorder I have a profound understanding of BPD as someone who had it, recovered from it, and had a relationship six years after my recovery with someone with BPD (and NPD). I have not only recovered from BPD but I have recovered from the relationship I had with a borderline-narcissist in which I was the non borderline and I am currently living my life free any involvement personally with Borderline Personality Disorder.
If you would like to get more information about my life coaching sevices please email me at: tlc_services@rogers.com
Personal Coaching is not counseling, therapy or consulting.
There will be more life coaching programs coming in the near future. Please check back for those.
If you would like to get more information about my life coaching sevices on the above listed issues or an issue in your life that isn't listed above please email me at: tlc_services@rogers.com
as of June 15, 2003
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